I stopped writing for a while, not because I didn’t have anything to say, but because it seemed pointless. Why bother writing if I couldn’t get anything published? And I couldn’t. I probably still can’t. Years ago, I finished a manuscript I love but have been unable to launch into the world. I have two…
Meditating With a Crowd
I meditate with a crowd, a chorus of voices that won’t shut up. They’ve got me cornered. I’m a captive audience with no way to escape my own head. All the noise provides a good excuse to skip meditation. Whenever I do attempt it, I spend way too much time stuffing the voices away, clamping…
Invisible
The original Ms. Pac-Man ghosts are Blinky (Red), Pinky (Pink), Inky (Blue), and Sue (Orange). I know, because I used to play the game a lot. I was a poor college student, and I needed to get the most from my quarters (especially since I was stealing them from my laundry-money stash). Ms. Pac-Man, newly…
Every Time You Go Away …
When we lose someone special to us, we note that they will always be in our hearts. And they are. We carry them with us wherever we go. But they take a piece away from us as well. Their passing leaves one less person in the world who remembers our personal times and spaces, who…
Contact
The parking lot in front of my local Trader Joe’s is always a bumper-car mess. It’s easier to drive past it to park on one of the mall’s parking decks. From there it’s a quick walk through the inside of the mall, finished by ducking outside again to access the grocery store entrance. The mall…
Juggling
Years ago, if you’d looked up “multitasking” in the dictionary, my picture would have been next to the entry. I was good at it. Practically flawless, in fact, and proud of it. Of course, I was not the only one. So many women I knew juggled care, schedules, and appointments for four or more people,…
Island of Misfit Manuscripts
When I was very young, I looked forward to the Christmas special Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. Back then, I was most interested in Rudolph and Hermey the Elf, lovable characters rejected by the Establishment because they didn’t fit an expected mold. I’ve grown up. The part of the show that sticks with me the most…
Autumn Leaves
My parents met in 1953 at the Garden House Hotel in Hurleyville, NY, where they were both employed for the summer. My father was a program director/performer in charge of entertainment. My mom, who’d done everything she could to get out of spending the whole summer in the Catskills away from her friends in the…
Probability of Winning
My brother talked me into joining his fantasy football league last year. “You’re ready,” he said. “And you’ll love it.” On the face of it, those are funny statements. Up until maybe ten years ago, I knew nothing about football. Other than the marching band, nothing anyone did on that field made any sense to…
Can’t Put It Down
My mom was an inveterate reader. Reading “a book” was for amateurs. She usually had three: the current book-club selection, the book she really wanted to read, and something light on the nightstand to fall asleep by. It didn’t take much to sweep her into a story. A page or two and she was gone,…
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Recent Blog Posts
- The Writing-Go-Round April 29, 2026
- Meditating With a Crowd April 22, 2026
- Invisible April 15, 2026
- Every Time You Go Away … April 8, 2026
- Contact October 19, 2024
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